Posted by: cv | 2008/12/01

Att: Lonely Post 1888

Good Day..........

That post could have been written ABOUT me!!! i' m 36 , 2 kids and also a wonderful man but.... i too have feelings of inadequacy. I also constantly seek others approval , i am a good person but inside i feel worthless and ANGRY AND GUILTY becos i have so much to be greatful for...... I over analyse the smallest little comment and it STICKS in my head for days and that eats at me causing me be feel more inadeqquate and angry. Y came i just be like other and JUST LET THINGS GO AND NOT LET OTHERS OPINIONS BOTH ME..... I am soo SCARED that the way i am will rub off onto my kids or that hubby will up and leave becos he is tired of constantly having to re assure and accept my bad moods. If only i knew where to start. I do know that I need to do something fast cos im even tired of me.

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Posted by: lonely | 2008/12/04

Dear Sannie. Thank you for the advice. I so want to be strong and maybe the more you tell yourself something, the easier it gets. Life is too short to worry about inconsequential people and things.

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Posted by: SANNIE | 2008/12/02

I, don' t feel alone. I was or is still like that,just a bit better. I used to worry about what people think about me. Then one morining I just wake up and decide that enough is enough, I want to change,I did it. Now I am a strong person,and when that feelings creep back, I just tell myself how strong I am. I hope that you can do the same thing. And wake one morning up,feeling stronger and happier.

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Posted by: lonely | 2008/12/02

dear Att: Lonely Post 1888. I know exactly what you mean(you were responding to my initial e-mail). I have a confident well adjusted husband and I worry that he will get so sick of my patheticness (if that' s a word). I am sitting here at work feeling utterly miserable because of colleagues who don' t speak to me and deliberaltely exclude me. It' s like I ask people to trample all over me.

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