Our expert says:
The start of your story describes Bad Manners - neither spouse should invite anyone to the home without discussing it with the other spouse. Similarly, a thank you is also simply good manners. If he keeps on doing this, as in the recent event, maybe you should explain that unfortunately as he didn't check with you, you're unavailable on that day, as you have made other arrangements to go out, so you hope he has a plan to hire a caterer or someone else to cook for them. Apparently this didn't faze him - maybe one then says you'd be glad to cook, but as he gave you no warning, there's no suitable food in the house at that time - could you serve them bacon and eggs ?
Anyhow, of course you're right to put your foot down and insist on simple courtesy. What would happen if you invited friends of yours ( not his ) round without warning him till thae last minute ?
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