Our expert says:
Gosh, Thaba, what a horrible experience ! How rude he was. I wonder what else may be happening at his end, to have made him get so angry, so very easily. Like Zee, I feel that when someone suddenly accuses you of having affairs, with no reason for doing so, it often means that they are. This could be part of just extreme jealousy, but from how you describe it, it sounds as if this was an unusual and unexpected thing, rather than just his usual suspicious behavior.
As Lee says, he could also be severely under stress at work, and like a lightning conductor on a house, you collected the lightning, though you did not cause it.
You were right to be asertive and to defend yourself. Wait a little while if he's not answering the phone now ( is there someone else you know, where he is, who you could call, who could bring or call him to the phone ? ) Tell him, when you can, and it sounds as if you have already told him in an SMS< that you love him, as you have told us, and let him cool off and contact you again. this isn't likely to be the end of a relationship.
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