Our expert says:
It is evident that you are experiencing a vast range and intensity of emotions having discovered what you have. Knowing men and their sexuality it may be that you have discovered that your husband indulges in some form of voyeuristic porn viewing at the one end of the possibilities to the worst end of your fear that he may be having extramarital sexual relationships.
It is important that you do have a discussion with your husband with regards your discovery and a need to discuss what this possibly is about or may mean.
Remind yourself that at this point you do not yet actually know but that you need to engage in an exploration. If you are able to begin the conversation with your husband from this stance you may not come across as intensely accusatory and confrontational and he would then not need to be as defensive.
This could open up the channel of communication for what will be a difficult conversation.
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