Our expert says:
Perhaps it depends on the type of staring --- isn't the point of dressing attractively, that others will appreciate and enjoy the effect, and look pleasantly ? "Attractive" is about attracting.
I very much like John's response. Maybe what you consider "attractive" is a style some others find provocative and over-encouraging. Maybe you are misunderstanding and misinterpreting glances of genuine and friendly admiration as something less savoury ? John did NOT "throw it right back at the woman!" and your reaction confirms to me that you are indeed unduly sensitive in this area. He reasonably outlined some poeeible explanations for the uncomfortable way these situations make you feel --- and unquestionably, those alternatives are truly possible. Nobody said any of them are necessarily true in your case.
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