Our expert says:
it saddens me to hear about your problem as through basic sex ed this problem can be overcome. it is imperative for you to realise that you have equal right to satisfaction and pleasure in a sexual relationship. sex needs not be a penetrative act BUT it needs to be an act in which both partners have their needs and wants satisfied.
by asking your boyfriend to arouse and stimulate you through oral sex and outer-course first through masturbation, fingering, kissing, vibrator ect you can reach an orgasm first and then your boyfriend can orgasm through penetrating you with his penis. this way both parties are satisfied.
simultaneous orgasms are a myth of hollywood - they should not be regarded as the reality of sex.
please see our website for further info: www.sexualhealth.co.za
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