Our expert says:
He has an alcohol problem, and is a multiple drug abuser, using illegal sreet drugs ( eg cocaine ) and illegally used and abused prescription drugs ( like the steroids ) being supplied illegally by unscrupulous persons. And then you say he gets violent round the house ( hardly surprising ).
Does he take part in competitive body building contests ? If so, some anonymous tip-offs to the officials to screen competitors for illicit drugs and steriods might be useful. yes, you cannot help him, nor can anyone else, while he abuses all these chemicals and denies the reality of his problems. This is abusive towards you and the child.
Seriously consider walking away to protect both of you, and maybe this could provide a wake-up call to him. If he is likely in any way to be violent about such a walk-away, then involve the police and a court order. being friendly now and again, just isn't enough.
HE must help himself, you cannot do it for him.
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