Our expert says:
Right --- he wasn't cool at all, but cold, which is much worse. But the anger isn't being especially useful at present, from the sound of it. Forgive yourself and move on, don't let yourself get caught up in bonds of anger with him. Check the archive for my earlier discussion of the Tar baby Syndrome. The comments from SR etc make a lot of good sense. Let the arroganu little punk live without any butter !
And for you and Ama --- yes, break all ties and allow no contact whatsoever with him. Treat this also like an adiction. When you start thinking about him again, slap yourslf on the wrist and dash off to do something else. Dont just oncentrate on how foolish you were, but on how wise you'll be from now on !
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