Our expert says:
You have of course every right to be angry at your toilet being broken by a drunken idiot, and to expect that person to pay to have it repaired. Now, that very night, when people are drunk already, isn't a wise time to deal directly with such episodes, other than to suggest that the party is over and people should go home --- you wouldn't get sense by talking to a drunk.
If you are udner stress for any reason, that might contribute to making you short-tempered. The question is do you get unreasonably severely angry, or angry over trivial things. A broken toilet isn't trivial, and if she expects you to ignore such wanton damage to your property by her drunken friends, it may be wise to re-evaluate the engagement, and at least seek relationship counselling before proceeding further towards a wedding.
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