Our expert says:
You have broken up. He has an absolute and inescapable duty to pay maintenance, enforced by a court order, and make certain this happens. he also has an unenforceable moral duty to the child, but some guys are negligent in this aspect. If he doesn't want to see and be loving towards then child, then she's missing nothing if he is absent from her life - he'd be absent wven when preswent, if you see what I mean.
His family have no real obligation to call or be nice, though of course they should do so out of simple human decency. But please stop focussing your life around HIM and them, rather than around your self and your wonderful child.
Clearly, looking back, mit was indeed a big mistake to have a child with this man, but you can't change that - you can only learn what not to do in future.
Maye dure you get a court order forcing him to pay proper maintenance ; and then expect nothing from him or his family, and you won't be disappointed. Move on and find more ways in which to enjoy life with your child, blessedly free from a selfish and uncaring guy
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