Our expert says:
He can't watch rugby at home ? If not, then its the bar and the boozy pals that are the attraction, and the rugby is the excuse.
From what you say, though, the brother is also neglecting his own wife and child, leaving them with you. And how do they get home, legless and unable to stand ? Are they not drunk-driving, and thus a serious danger to their own lives and that of innocent strangers ? I wonder if the police could be encouraged to take an interest in such a pattern of behaviour and to stop and breathalyze them and charge them with drunken driving ?
Of course what they are doing is wrong and highly juvenile and irresponsible, and there's nothing wrong with you for disapproving.
These are not married men, they are large children, playing together. Its not just rude, its dangerous.
Of course, as Milla says, its not worth ever discussing with him unless he is sober.
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