Our expert says:
Truly selfish people never ask that question.
I know how this happens --- you're expected to always understand and to be the last person they think of ; and so, because you're always asumed to be "understanding", the legend continues. Odd, isn't it, how families tend to vote people into certain roles ? One is the Strong one who handles everyone else's crises ; one is the designated victim we're supposed to fel sorry for, and so on. Now don't feel bad for having been eventually goaded into expressing your feelings to your mom rather than always suppressing these. She needed to know, and to think about it. Maybe even go so far as to see a counsellor ( or at least get some self-help books ) about being assertive, and ecognize the difference between Assertive ( Good Thing ) and Aggressive ( Bad Thing ).
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