Our expert says:
OK< it does indeed sound as though she lacks relationship skills and foresight, and is getting herself into repeated problems --- but that is her problem, as an independent adult, and not yours. And if she chooses to stay with you, in your home, she should be considerate and keep to your house-rules. She should not, as a mother, waltz off leaving you literally holding the baby. And she shouldn't make any but emergency calls on your phone and at your expense --- she can get her own cellphone and pay for it herself, or forego the calls altogether. It sounds as though she is not bothering to mother her own child, and that is irresponsible. Maybe the child welfare authorities could advise you and help ?
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