Our expert says:
CJ, I remember your asking essentially this same question more than once before. You know, I think one of the good reasons for various cultural traditions of various cultures, is that they provide structure and, for instance, discourage rapidly rushing into relationships ( and pregnancies ) on the rebound.
I don't see any realistic alternative in the situation you describe, to having several long, sincere and frank talks with him to see what you two can and can't sort ou between you.
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