Our expert says:
Reminds me of the old English saying about someone jumping out of the frying pan, and into the fire. You have left behind a cheater who didn't respect you - and may have rushed into a relationship with another cheater who doesn't respect you. This is one of the reasons I always advise people NEVER to rush from one unhappily ended relartionship straight into another. Take time to digest and learn from the previous experience and to learn how to avoid making the same mistake again.
Of course he SEEMED 'wonderful" - that's a necessary skill for a serial cheater. If he seemed horible, he wouldn't manage any of those affairs or flirtations.
Other than monks, few men work without contact with women , strictly within the needs of the work - but there's little need for women to be contacting him by phone or text. If this was genuinely work-related, he should also be flooded by calls and texts from men, Is he ?
He apparently has many inexplicable absences, which he SAYS are work-related, but you really don't know, do you ?
I very much doubt that you're making any large or irrecoverable mistak. Take your time. If he's still available and friendly and seems like a good idea 6 months or a year from now, maybe it'd be worth reconsidering. But don't assume that this is your only, ever, chance for love.
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