Our expert says:
Of course none of us can answer these questions, except your husband, with whom you need to discuss these matters. Why did he not tell you about going to a strip-club ? Probably because he didn't want to upset you ( we very often upset people by our efforts not to upset them ). The act that while on holiday he was again like the man you originalyl fell in love with shows that that aspect of your relationship is still reachable and open to revisiting. Why not, as is my usual reasonable suggestion, consider marriage counselling to better understand what sems to have been going adrift between the two of you, and see how much you can heal and strengthen this relationship ?
He sounds imature, and too concntrated on showing off to and looking good in front of, his friends, and lacking in the self-confidence to just be himself and with you alone.
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