Our expert says:
If she has a crush on him, they are NOT "just colleagues" You'd be amazed at how many hundreds of colleagues I've had over the years, and not had a crush on any of them, or vice versa. There is NO possible good reason for him to allow this silly woman to call him to gossip at odd hours, and if he respects you he will tell her, maybe even in front of you, that her calls are unwelcome and must stop. I can understand why you spoke to his manager. This could greatly annoy your bf ( but he might not be too great a loss if he goes off in a huff ). It won't be appreciated by the woman, but a warning from her boss might do her good. It might not have been the smartest thing you could have done, but you did it, so the issue is now to deal with the consequences.
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