Our expert says:
It must be a huge relief to know that she has died. I am deply suspicious when someone actually dying of AIDS, tries so hard to get someone else to sleep with them ( which is not what they neeed at such a time ) --- it seems too much like they want to be sure they give AIDS to the other person. You need to have a serious talk with your husband, especialy abou how you cant afford for him to go to the funeral, how he may encounter bitterness from her amily if he goes, and how it is disrespectful towards you, to insist on honoring a woman who persistently treated you so badly. I se no reason why you ought to feel sympathy for someone who behaved so badly.
Talk to him, and help him to understand that he has nothing to feel guilty about for resisting her attempts to infect him and you. At most, send flowers or a message / card. And get a fresh test, to be sure.
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