Our expert says:
Setting, unilaterally, am 18 year delay on your dreams and your career, hradly sounds fair at all. And what's the point of your working to pay for "houses and cars" HE wants ? And why do you both need more than one house, and maybe 2 cars at most ? If he has a job in the bundu that;'s so great, why does he ( and you ) have to pay for these grand overseas trips ? It just doesn't make sense except in an entirely selfish way. If he's traipsing round the world to watch or play sport, that's a HOBBY, which he should pay for himself, aftwer having paid for everything his home and family need. He can play sport here, with no need for grand travels.
Your question is very fair - why does he need "time out" at such huge expense, but not you ? If he throws tantrums when you ask about this, that's pathetically childish of him.
Stop earning extra money for his frivolous enjoyments ; or put it all into a separate account used TOTALLY for and by you. And get involved in the community, social and business, in which you live.
He is behaving like a spoiled child - handle him like one. A case for Supernanny !
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