Our expert says:
Sorry to hear you met up with a guy who was much less than a man in facing his responsibilities.
This isn't an easy phase of life to face alone, and the hormonal shifts in pregnancy often disturb one's mood.
Its hard to figure out what this "friend" is doing, or how she can imagine she is helping ( maybe she doesn't ; maybe she has some other interest in disturbing you ? ) She sounds like someone who visits a person who has had an operation, fiddles with their bandages, and scrapes at the scabs, slowing down the healing of the wound.
Just tell her, very calmly but clearly, that youj cannot understand why she keeps telling you about your ex, as this obviously only upsets you - he has walked out on his responsibilities as a man and a father, and you are adjusting to this, but its made more difficult by her talking about a man you have moved on from.
Separately, though you may well be able to support your child on your own, one value in women going to court to get at least token maintenance, is to remind guys like that, that fathering children isn't something they should take so lightly
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