Our expert says:
Maybe you are too much in each other's company. And its sad that you feel defensive when he tries to joke with you, and that you never try to joke with him. Marriage and indeed other relationships are never intended to be so darn solemn ! Why not agree to see a marriage counsellor together and explore all these aspects of your relatiomnship, to enable it to become more comfortable and relaxed and enjoyable for both of you ? And to see a fully qualified marriage counsellor, eg through FAMSA, rather than a church-based counsellor, who may not have as much training, experience and breadth of skills
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