Our expert says:
I don't see why it should be your task top pleasure him and please him, and ignore your own very valid needs. Isn't there some way to persuade him into marriage counselling with you, even if he needs to thinks its to help him deal with the problems he has about you ? And at least DO see a counsellor for you, yourself, to regain your sel-esteem and strength, You don't seem to be encouraging him to be loving towards you, only to become more demanding.
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