Our expert says:
Guys, it is TERRIBLY difficult for me to handle dozens of very very long messages, especially when they all pile up on a monday --- at least try to spread them through the week, and edit them to render them more brief and to the point. A long discussion with all the details belongs in a paid session with your own personal shrink.
Sorry to hear about all this. Seeing acounsellor, especially of the CBT format could really help you to cope better with all these stresses. Sometimes, fertility is impaired by stress and distress, and is improved when treatment helps you to handle that better.
A second opinion about the hearing sounds like a good idea, as one can only assess a proposed treatment when sure about the cause / diagnosis.
In the examples you quote, it sounds as though both of you are feeling stressed, and that both of you could have handled the situations better. Could you persuade him to join you in marriage counselling ? As you say, his just running away from a problem never helps to solve it.
And as maria says, sorrt out the mariage first, before deciding to have a child
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