Our expert says:
You are clearly very perceptive and attuned to your partner. Premature ejaculation is the most common male sexual complaint. It is also treatable with the help of a sex therapist.
I do not beleive there is a "how to approach" one size fits all response to your question. Discussing sexual issues is uncomfortable and difficult for most people. What is important is to know that your intention in addressing your concerns about your sexual relationship with your partner is to establish a mutually satisfying sexual relationship that enriches and satisfies you both. So the best "approach" is to be open, honest and sensitive and share with your partner your concerns in an open ended way, so that he can fill in the gaps in your questions. Give him the necessary reassurance as to your commitment to him and the relationship, notwithstanding the sexual concerns.
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