Our expert says:
Its sad when nice people like you insist on remaining in love with unloveable or unloveworthy people. I;m sorry you have been hurting so much. He is apparently a difficult person --- that's how he is, there's no mysterious reason to be discovered to explain this. Why did he "have to father your child" ? Well, I guess the two of you slept together, and that's a very possible consequence. It may seem very hard to understand why he is apparently NOT the nice guy you convinced yourself he was. His cruelty is indeed despicable. But focussing on him isn't productive. Fat better than you see a good local counsello to work through these feelings, to free yourself from him, and look after your child and yourself, and leave him far behind in your dust.
Excellent response from Single Mom
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