Our expert says:
Separated should be considered as equivelant to married from a psychological point of view. Until thoroughly divorced and psychologically free from the previous relationship, nobody is a good bet for forming a relationship with.
And in this case, where apparently he wasn't even honest enough to tell you fro the start that he is married and still very much involved with his wife and children, why continue any relationship with him ? You know he is prepared to cheat on her, and should assume he will in time be prepared to cheat on you, too.
he is NOT being "very honest" with you - he is selectively informing you so as to wrap you into his afairs, while using you to hurt his wife and children. He CAN live without you, and should plan to do so.
he uis also using you as an excuse to brag to his friends and make them jealous of you. That's using you to make him feel good in front of the other guys. Not respectful and not loving at all.
Dump him and move on. Don't you deserve better ?
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