Our expert says:
If he has been dithering like this for 12 years, and after 8 searches still hasn't "found himself" maybe he needs a map ? In other words, he is never going to "find himself" by this daft way of searching, but could sort this out probably fairly rapidly, with a good CBT counsellor / therapist.
As to how counselling can help, discuss this with your own psychologist, after outlining the current problem as you see it.
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