Posted by: Dinky | 2012/12/06

advice please - child nightmares

My son of 6 has nightmares, screaming during the night. I asked and he says the monsters are chasing him? How do I help or find out what causes his nightmares? I am so worried, please any advice....

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Causes are so often not useful to pursue in contrast to management. A phase of nightmares seems to arise commonly during childhood. As for causes one would check out - has he been watching scary movies or DVD, especially at night ? And has he run into frightening problems at school ( eg bullies ) or elsewhere ? If so, then its clear what one needs to do ; if not, the phase will probably pass before long, ad you can provide loads of re-assurance, a night-light, and encouragement.

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Posted by: Sara | 2012/12/10

Hi Dinky,

My son was having what we thought were nightmares and it was actually epilepsy. He was yelling and screaming and tossing about in his bed. Any of this ring true?

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Posted by: dinky | 2012/12/06

Thanks all for your advice. He has been sleeping with a light since he was 3 months old. We go through this every few months for the past year or so, at one stage he claimed there was a man standing at his door....we are parents who believe in avoiding violence, dont watch horrors or scientific movies. He spends most of his time watching " boomerang"

Maybe he is just stressed with " big school"  just felt kind off helpless...thanxs again all

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Posted by: Maria | 2012/12/06

As Lou says, try to find out if something is bothering him and don''t let him watch scary movies. Has he seen Monsters Inc? That might help.

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Posted by: Lou | 2012/12/06

Hi Dinky,

Most children go through the " nightmares"  stage. Make sure he is not watching violent or scary movies at night, and maybe give him a night light till this phase passes (which it will).
You need to eliminite the possibility that he is dealing with upsetting things at pre-school (if he goes), as maybe there is bullying issues that are troubling him (or something like that) - if there is nothing like that, then put it down to a normal childhood phase. Some children have it at age 4, some at age 6 - it all depends on the child.

Good luck

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