Our expert says:
Sorry to hear the courts have been so pathetically incompetent in dealing with your maintenance problems --- they should SOLELY look at the child's needs, and not accept ANY claim from the defaultin dad without objective proof of whatever he is claiming. Of course part of your problem may be that his faults may be hard for you to prove, too.
YOu have no need to chat or be friendly with the deadbeat dad. Just say NO and move away from him. And if he persists, turn to one of the other dads and ask him to help, "because this man is pestering me and wont leave me alone".
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