Our expert says:
Virgo, sounds like you really need and deserve a longer and more skilled period of counselling, to work hrough this. One of the lasting effects abuse can have is this excessive regard for pleasing others, and neglecting your own needs --- work on that in counselling. Sort out your own issues in counselling, and then you'll be far more free to find and enjoy a healthier and less needy relationship, as an equal. Sounds like this relatonship with the guy is acally over, and waiting for you to let go and move on. You're not losing the plot ; and you desrve and will find a better and more lasting and fulfilling relatonship, after geting your homework done in counselling.
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