Our expert says:
From out here we can't tell for sure, but it sounds as if you two are looking for different things from this relationship, and not steering this ship together, on the same maps. 8 years is a long time for someone to still be unready for committment --- 8 years is a committment that has lasted longer than many marriages.
Talk with him. And don't let yourself be scared of what he might say --- he's not going to invent something, whatever he says will represent how he actually feels, so it's better out than in --- if you know how he feels, you can cope with it far better thasn if you're still guessing.
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