Our expert says:
I can't imagine how anyone could be fired for asking about a possible tranfer to another branch --- and any HR manager who allows such a thing, and sneaks to someone's boss about it, is the person who ought to be out of a job ! And what of the required procedures of 3 written warnings, etc. ?
Good that you found a better job --- maybe you should chat with the HR here, and with someone at the Dept of Labour / CCMA, whatever, to learn all about your rights as a worker and how to protect them.
IF you feel nauseous after communicating with this guy, and he is so immature, jealous, etc., what's the point in carrying on with this relationship ? Sounds like he wants a servant, not a partner.
See someone at your bank for proper financial advice about how to manage your debts, and how to cut back on all unnecessary expenditure.
Anon 2's comments are wise and helpful, too.
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