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A guest is someone who comes only occasionally, at your request, not someone who comes regularly at their own decision.
Sounds like she's given up on herself, sopmeone who aimed low in life, and still missed.
Relying on her dad's pity ( and maybe guilt ? ) to help her, and not bothering to do some of the obvious things that could help improve her situation. He may have fallen into the trap of becoming an Enabler, who enables a person to fail and excuses their failure to even seriously try.
Can you calmly and gently discuss with her dad, in a way that would make it harder for him to see it as an attack on her or on himself, how she needs individual counsellin and help, or she will spend her life as an emotional equivalent of the Cold Front the weathermen talk of, a small cloud of gloom,, sharing her misery with others while not validly trying to change it herself ?
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