Our expert says:
Noticwe how often within questions, people seem to be seeking general laws of human behaviour, which don't exist. Some grandparents, etc, accept adopted kids readily and hapilly as members of the family --- some have difficulty even accepting during born natural family members. SO I like J's suggestion of frankly discussing this with the grandparents ( and whoever else ) to know beforehand how they feel about the prospect.
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