Our expert says:
It may depend on WHEN a message was posted. If it was in the last week or so, you can page back a page or two in the main forum section. If it was earlier than that, there is an archive of the forum which you can search. I'm not sure exactly which parts of the message are searchable --- I know you can search for particular words within the text of a message, but I'm not sure whether you can easily search by author / poster of a message, or by date.
And I'm sure the other folk are right, though -- dont let yourself get into a lather about this episode, and concwentrate on dealing with your own grief, and perhaps ofering some support and assistance to the family --- THAT's important.
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