Our expert says:
It is never the case that when a couple argues, it is ALWAYS the fault of one of them. And if you are accused on not loving him enough or not paying him enough attention, then he sounds alarmingly needy or greedy and selfish, or both. This relationship sounds abusive in its impact on you, and that's what matters, not some external definition. If you think the relationship might be worth saving, and he can be persuaded, relationship counselling just might help. Otherwise, maybe give it up as unworkable, and move on
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