Our expert says:
Hi MRs E,
I think you may want to explore, with a good lawyer, and/or the advice of the folks at the Family Court, getting a court interdict to forbid him and his gf from harrassing or annoying you in any way. And if he makes problems about his access to the kids, he could potentially lose that access. The letter ma be intended as a preliminary meant to convinc the court that you have tried to handle this without an interdict, and thus to make it weasier for you to get an interdict. And if he breaks it, complain and have him sent to jail. Keep copies of his gf's emails, and anything else that confirms the ongoing harrassment. Do NOT forgive him or go soft on this --- get the interdict, keeping him and her away from you. Your marriage surely taught you that every time you back off, he'll do it again. Stop him this time.
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