Our expert says:
You may have begun this relationship with the best intentions in the world, but what you seem to be describing, doesn't sound as though it is good for either of you. What is the point of continuing to accept emotionally abusive behavior ? He sounds as though he needs to get into therapy to deal with his personal demons.
You express some ideas about why he might want to punish you. I have a different question. By choosing to remain in this relationship, why do YOU want to punish you ? Intermittent sweet words from a mainline abuser are not worth tuppence.
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