Our expert says:
Hmmm. Presumably the son was Not abused by his father. Inviting anyone from Canada is a serious and expensive invitation. Can you discuss it with the lad, explaioning why this is such a problem for you and his sister ? Is he in fact aware that the abuse occurred ? If he is made aware of this, he might disinvite his father.
Otherwise, as Maria says there are only a few options. If her first option fails, maybe the third is worth considering ? Maintain your dignity and that of the occasion, without giving him comfort or absolution
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