Posted by: ?? | 2008/01/25


i was emotionally abused by my fiance, we called the family to help but we ended the relationship, 3 moths later we got back together but then he physically abused me and i decided to leave him forever but still i'm not sure bacause i still love him and our baby adore him.

is there something called third chance in life, or is just me hoping for someone to change?

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If he is, and that is what you are saying, persistently abusive, physically and emotionally, then this is not something to love or accept or endure. As I wrote some time ago in a similar situation -- how many "last chances" does he expect ? A persistent abuser WILL abuse you again, and their promises to be different "this time" are very rarely if ever true. Don't you and your child deserve a non-abusive relationship ?

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Posted by: me | 2008/01/25

Been there!! stil is!! I don't know about the 1st or 3rd chances in life but what I do know is that I really understand exactly how you feel and the anticipation you have of loving and caring so much for someone that you wish you could wave a magic wand and hope they'd change - for the better and positive of course! I'm in a similar relationship and while you may know what "the right thing" would be, you still cling to the faint hope and mere possibility for a "normal" loving relationship. Sorry I have no answering input or advice coz I'm on the same end but I'll carry you in my prayers.

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