Our expert says:
I don't think God sends such messy messages. Do hold on and work towards finding solutions for yourself. Maybe tell her that you can't face a weekend away in this situation, and must insist rather on marriage counselling, as you can't feel there's anything to celebrate in the situation she has created.
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