Our expert says:
Well, Tired, this is a fine time for him to suddenly think of telling you he doesn't like Xhosa women ! Odd he didn't think of that nefore now ! So he has financial problems ( not your fault ) --- would he have preferred that you didn't pay for anything to have helped him out ? And what is he talking about, that people who are kind enough to financially support someone in difficulties, "get dumped all the time" ? Only by immature idiots ! You're absolutely right to reject this old-fashioned and sterile tribalis,, and his fear of independent women.
I can understand what he has needed you --- why have you stayed with him ?
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