Our expert says:
Its typical of someone with a true bordeline personality disorder, that they VERY readily feel abandoned. even when this is not the other person's intentions at all, and they tend to react badly, often self-damagingly, when they feel that way. And the way they respond to these feelings tends to drive away from them the very people whose attention they want. And the sort of distressing earlier experiences you mention would certainly not have helped at all.
Medications are usually not the most useful approach, but skilled psychotherapy can help. See a good local shrink for a thorough assessment, and then a discussion of treatment options.
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