Our expert says:
Why "push" her to change the relationship ? Why not just discuss it with her, suggest that you would be interested in developing it further IF that would be agreeable to her, and how does she feel about it ?
The French have a saying that translates as "A door should be either open or shut", and you need to clear up this ambiguity, where it sounds as though neither of you really knows what the other wants or where this may ( or may not ) be heading. TALK.
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