Our expert says:
Ater 10 years and 2 kids, she surely would know if you love her. OK, so lately you failed to SHOW your love and affection clearly enough, and presumably that's what she is notm angry about. Maybe she feels used and taken for granted. Can you persuade her that you are serious, and that you will show this by both entering marriage counselling with her, and planning a marroage when this suits her ?
Maybe also write all this in a letter so she has a copy to remind her what you are saying - and so she can remind you what you said if you backtrack or delay.
But you can't force the issue ; you can't make someone stay lovingly. Maybe she will leave, but make it clear that you will change, and will be waiting for her to return.
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