Our expert says:
A person really REALLY needs to decide firmly what they want before starting a pregnancy, or planning marriage. Does he not recognize that with a pregnancy, you and the child can't change their minds --- so why should he ?
And the other man has behaved like a real man, and a gentleman, too. Don't be unduly cruel to him --- sounds like he has grown up, and the biodad has grown down. Take him seriously, and consider seeing a counsellor to more closely and fruitfully examine your alternatives.
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