Our expert says:
Oh Elisa, Why have you chosen to chase a person who has told you he is "emotionally unavailable", and according to your description, behaves inconsiderately and selfishly. Do you have a masochistic fondness for rejection and being badly treated ? It's not true that you "can't let him go", but apparently true that you DON'T let him go. That's different.
Do you have such a low opinion of yourself that you don't feel you deserve to be with someone who actually respects you and treats you well ?
You say he tells you he loves you ( but is "emotionally unavailable" : don't listen to what he says. Listen to what he does.
Maybe you'd benefit from seeing a counselor, to sort out your unfortunate relationship with yourself, and to prepare yourself for having wholesome relationships with people who genuinely love and respect you.
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