Our expert says:
Before even looking at the question of whether it's possible to "make" anyone trust anyone ; Why does it seem acceptable to you ( and him ) for you to trust him though he has cheated on you numerous times, but apparently he finds it impossible to trust you again, after your single, foolish ( such revenge never ever benefits anyone ), episode of cheating ?
Has he ever heard of the concept of Double Standards ?
Why does he have the cheek to "reassess" the relationship, apparently blaming you, without apparently bothering about his many blameworthy activities ?
Why are you worrying about whether he trusts you ? And why are you apparently so ready to trust him ? Why do you see it as your task to "make things normal again"?
Why do you seem so apologetic, and he so unapologetic ?
If he could (which I very much doubt ) sincerely participate in marriage counselling, maybe something useful might be achieved. More likely to work, see a personal counsellor to deal with your own issues, and maybe learn something about assertiveness. You're not "in a good space" yet.
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