Our expert says:
Long distance relationships are never easy. But even when you are physically close, remember that some of us, perhaps especially men, may feel uneasy and unskilled in responding helpfully to someone else's emotional issues ( or even their own). A wholesome relationship should not feel suffocating and emotionally draining. Maybe having a close relationship is much more important for you than it is for him ?
It doesn't sound as though you are over-reacting, or being impatient.
Breaking may be a wise decision, but you're right that it is preferable not to do this by text rather than in person. Can you wait until he next visits you ?
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