Our expert says:
I wonder what other readers think about this, and how they would respond. Alas, Adults are legally free to be daft, and to act stupidly. Except in the rare situation where they are consistently acting so as to be a real risk to themselves or others ( when a lawyer could advise there are ways to arrange for a compulsory assessment and even treatment ) there's nothing much one can do other than try hard to persuade them.
Some people are rich and mean : some just because that's their personality to start with, some because they used to be really poor, and being very cautious about spending, for fear of becoming poor again, may dominate their way of thinking.
Rather than arguing directly on the issue of upgrading his level of medical aid protection, chat about your concerns, for yourself and your own family, and for your parents, about the awful cost of medical care, even for quite minor conditions, and how common serious illnesses which could happen to any of us at any time, can be catastrophically expensive, and why you have decided, for yourselves, to get the best level of medical aid coverage you can afford, to avoid being ruined by impossible expenses at a time of serious illness. Point out that you're concerned about your parents, because you frankly could not afford to pay their expenses if anything like that happened to them. And ask his advice on how they are planning to deal with such an emergency when it happens,
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